Growing Up Differently: How Our Past Shapes Our Parenting
- Micaela Stroup
- Nov 22, 2024
- 2 min read
In the latest episode of The In Between, Matt and Jenna open up about their childhoods and how those experiences influence their parenting today. From stable homes to moving around, from big families to being an only child, their upbringings couldn’t have been more different—and yet both shaped how they show up for their kids now.
Here are some key takeaways from their heartfelt (and sometimes funny) conversation:
1. The Media Shift
Matt reflected on growing up with traditional TV (and patiently sitting through commercials), compared to today’s streaming-dominated world. He reminded us that open conversations about current events, like his parents had with him, can help kids process what’s happening in the world.
Takeaway: Create space for your kids to ask questions and understand the world without overwhelm.
2. Nurturing Talents Early
Jenna shared how her mom spotted her knack for performing early on and got her into acting. Not only did it help her family financially, but it also taught her the value of hard work.
Takeaway: Pay attention to your child’s interests—they might be onto something amazing!
3. Praise vs. Pressure
Matt’s dad motivated him in sports with performance-based incentives, which worked but sometimes added stress. Now, he and Jenna focus more on positive reinforcement to shape behavior.
Takeaway: Encourage your kids without piling on the pressure—praise goes a long way.
4. Stability Matters
As a child of divorce, Jenna craved stability. It’s a big reason she prioritizes creating a secure, grounded environment for her own kids today.
Takeaway: Your past doesn’t have to define your future. Break cycles and build the family life you want.
5. Be Present
Jenna’s childhood taught her the importance of being there for her kids. Whether it’s showing up to a game or just sitting together at dinner, those moments count.
Takeaway: Presence matters more than perfection. Be there for the big and small moments.
The beauty of parenting is how much we learn from it—about our kids and ourselves. By reflecting on their pasts, Matt and Jenna give all of us permission to do the same, growing not just as parents but as people.
What lessons from your childhood shape how you parent?
🎙️ Listen to this episode of The In Between for more insights, laughs, and maybe a few aha moments.
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